Get To Know Me (Coaching Corner) – Kristie Brezenski

At Nebraska Soccer Talk, we love covering everything soccer related. For the most part, that means covering games and providing analysis/opinions. However, our overall mission and purpose is far reaching and ambitious. Our goal is to bring the soccer community closer together through collaboration and communication.  There are countless people that deserve recognition for their efforts as a player, official, or coach. Throughout the season, we will be highlighting these individuals through our Get To Know Me articles.

This will be a series made up of three different components. All of which are meant to bring attention to the soccer community.

  1. Get To Know Me (Coach Edition) – These individuals are responsible for building their programs, growing the game of soccer, and mentoring the next generation. We look forward to learning about their lives and philosophies.
  2. Get To Know Me (Player Edition) – This article series will focus on high school juniors and seniors that have demonstrated themselves to be quality players and people. With these features, our community will learn about some of the most impressive players in the state.
  3. Future of the Game – This article series will focus on the freshmen and sophomore classes. These are players that we will be covering for years to come.

Thank you to every individual that provided information for this idea. We appreciate your thoughtful and timely responses.

Kristie Brezenski

Name of High School Program: Columbus Scotus Central Catholic Girls

Occupation Outside of Coaching: 2nd Grade Teacher 

Soccer Idol: Abby Wambach

Who would you consider to be your soccer mentor? What is the story behind your selection? How did they help you in your soccer journey? 

My cousin Kim Engelbert was my soccer mentor.  My dad and I would go watch her play when she was at Duchesne.  She was quick, had moves, and had this “never say die” attitude.  Kim was so kind off the field, but her presence on the field made me want to be her.  She put in the work outside of practice and was willing to take me aside and show me some soccer moves.  Any time given to a kid that looks up to you changes them.  It builds them up, it gives them a sense that they can do anything, they can conquer the world.  

Describe a favorite soccer memory that you have been involved with. This memory could be from your playing or coaching experiences. Tell us the story and impact of this memory. 

When I was in college, we were playing in Kansas and we were up 2-1 against a top 10 team in NAIA.  The game was getting rough and a little out of hand.  A few of my teammates got into a small brawl and I remember our whole team sprinting from every side of the field to be there to defend them.  We knew we had each others’ backs.  That gave us the fuel we needed to get behind each other, dig in, and pull out the win.  That year, we were so rough with each other at practice and would push each other so hard.  But getting through those tough times together, we ended up being so close and would do anything for every member of that team.  I truly believe that is one of the main reasons we were so successful that year.

List and describe three important pillars or values of your program. What is the culture of your program built on? What do they mean to you? 

1. Perseverance – going above and beyond, despite the obstacles that lie in the path.  Having that “Never give up!” attitude, fighting till the end.

2. Effort – that no matter what, 110% will be given at any point in time.  The one thing that we can always count on is effort. 

3. Camaraderie – any team that plays together and for each other, nothing can stop them.

This program is built on tradition.  A tradition of being team first, doing everything we can to make each player be the best that they can for the betterment of the team.  There have been a multitude of strong, successful athletes that have come through Scotus to strengthen the tradition of “whatever it takes.”  I love that it hangs over our girls’ heads to strive to be a part of that tradition.

What is your motivation for coaching? This is a time-consuming and challenging occupation. Why do you do it? 

My motivation for coaching is to not only give these girls the skills to succeed on the soccer field, but also to help aid in developing the skills to succeed in life.  They need to find their own motivation to keep going when things are tough, they can’t depend on others to do it for you.  Giving 100% effort when things seem pointless, can give you the push you need to rise above all else.  To never settle on being just good enough at something, but to constantly strive to better yourself in every aspect of life.  There will always be time and ways to get better to keep stepping up that ladder in life.  Don’t always take the easy way, if it’s too easy, it’s too good to be true and probably not worth it.  Things are hard in life, embrace the hard, take the bull by the horns, and be ready to fight.  You are worth it!!!

 

Thank you for reading and being a part of our new community. A like, share, comment or recommendation of content would be greatly appreciated. In order to financially support our efforts, sponsorship/partnership opportunities have become available. Sponsors will receive vast exposure to the Nebraska soccer community through different media avenues. The sponsorship process is easy and reasonable.

Contact us on our website or email @ nebraskasoccertalk@gmail.com.

Connect with us on TwitterInstagram, or listen to our podcast.

 

Get To Know Me (Coach Edition) – Lindsay Aliano

At Nebraska Soccer Talk, we love covering everything soccer related. For the most part, that means covering games and providing analysis/opinions. However, our overall mission and purpose is far reaching and ambitious. Our goal is to bring the soccer community closer together through collaboration and communication.  There are countless people that deserve recognition for their efforts as a player, official, or coach. Throughout the season, we will be highlighting these individuals through our Get To Know Me articles.

This will be a series made up of three different components. All of which are meant to bring attention to the soccer community.

  1. Get To Know Me (Coach Edition) – These individuals are responsible for building their programs, growing the game of soccer, and mentoring the next generation. We look forward to learning about their lives and philosophies.
  2. Get To Know Me (Player Edition)This article series will focus on high school juniors and seniors that have demonstrated themselves to be quality players and people. With these features, our community will learn about some of the most impressive players in the state. 
  3. Future of the Game – This article series will focus on the freshmen and sophomore classes. These are players that we will be covering for years to come.

Thank you to every individual that provided information for this idea. We appreciate your thoughtful and timely responses.

Lindsay Aliano

Name of High School Program: Elkhorn South Girls Soccer

Occupation Outside of Coaching: High School Math Teacher (and mom!)

Favorite Professional Soccer Team: US Women’s National Team

Soccer Idol (Player or Coach): Julie Ertz

Who would you consider to be your soccer mentor? What is the story behind your selection? How did they help you in your soccer journey?

My high school soccer coach (who is still coaching at Millard West), Jacque Tevis-Butler.  When I played for her in high school, she had a way of getting our team to focus and play our best soccer, but always made the process enjoyable.  She made you love the game even more than before the season started.  After I became a head coach, there have been countless times I have reached out to her for opinions, advice, and guidance.  She never hesitates to listen and help me through whatever challenge I may be facing, even after all these years.  But …. she will hate every minute of me calling her my “mentor” in this article! 🙂

Describe a favorite soccer memory that you have been involved with. This memory could be from your playing or coaching experiences. Tell us the story and impact of this memory. 

Winning state in 2015 and 2019 are memories I will never forget, but I think one of the most pivotal moments for me as a coach was the Metro Conference Championship game in 2018.  Being down 0-2 at half and keeping a team motivated enough to stay in the game is a difficult task for even the most experienced of coaches.  Watching my team believe in themselves and fight their way back into the game to tie it up 2-2 during regulation and then finding the back of the net in overtime to win the game 3-2 was such a proud moment for me as a coach.  Getting kids to believe in themselves is such an impactful moment for any coach and something you hope they continue to do even when their time playing for you is over.

List and describe three important pillars or values of your program. What is the culture of your program built on? What do they mean to you? 

Respect  – Respect starts with respecting yourself.  Recognize your abilities and believe in yourself.  Along with respecting yourself, you have to respect others.  Support others, acknowledge their feelings, and accept all teammates, coaches, team managers, etc.  Be welcoming and respectful of officials and opposing teams and value the time and effort your teammates and coaches are putting in to make you a better person and player.

Discipline and Accountability – In life you have to accept responsibility for actions or outcomes.  We believe in holding players to a standard and if that standard is not met, we accept responsibility and make a plan to change the unwanted outcomes.  This is more about navigating life lessons than it is about winning soccer games.  Sports are there to teach kids and to hold them accountable when they make mistakes.  This allows them to make mistakes in a comfortable environment, learn from them, and move on.

Teamwork – There is not much you can accomplish in life without teamwork.  Nearly every aspect of life requires you to work with others.  Your career, raising a family, friendship, etc.  It is important that players learn from a young age how to work with others and even with others that may not have the same skill set or beliefs you have.

What is your motivation for coaching? This is a time-consuming and challenging occupation. Why do you do it? 

I hope to influence and empower young women not only in their soccer journey, but also in life.  The most important part of coaching is developing players into ethical, thoughtful, intentional people.  You want to be there to offer support and encouragement as your players are going through such an important time in their lives where they are developing into adults.  As a high school teacher, I have the opportunity to do this every day, but the lasting relationships you have with your players in something different.  There is an overwhelming amount of joy I feel when former players contact me for advice, to update me on their accomplishments, or simplify just to check in.

Thank you for reading and being a part of our new community. A like, share, comment or recommendation of content would be greatly appreciated. In order to financially support our efforts, sponsorship/partnership opportunities have become available. Sponsors will receive vast exposure to the Nebraska soccer community through different media avenues. The sponsorship process is easy and reasonable.

Contact us on our website or email @ nebraskasoccertalk@gmail.com.

Connect with us on TwitterInstagram, or listen to our podcast.

Das Reboot: How German Soccer Reinvented Itself and Conquered the World – Book Recommendation

As coaches, players, and generally as people, we should always be looking to improve in one way or another. Continual growth and lifelong learning are impactful characteristics that shape a prosperous future. By improving ourselves, we can positively impact our surroundings on a greater scale. 

At Nebraska Soccer Talk, we have many objectives. We are here to promote players and coaches that participate in the game we love. As the season gets underway, NEST is also going to be covering as many games as humanly possible with a three person operation. However, we have a more overarching goal of forming an uplifting and supportive soccer community. We plan to do that in many different ways with the assistance of our readers. 

In the world we live in, there are countless resources at our disposal. Some are worth the time and effort, others simply are not. Sorting through those resources can be confusing, as well as time consuming. This article series is meant to make your growth process simple, enjoyable, and organized. Many of these resources are valuable, regardless of your level or role. Youth, high school, club, college, and pro coaches can benefit from these resources. Players, especially team leaders, can learn many valuable lessons. Finally, these items would be great for any parent looking to be more prepared for their child’s development.  

As a young coach and director, I spent countless hours searching and researching the internet for material. Throughout that process, I came across wonderful books, articles, and videos that have impacted me. These resources cover a myriad of topics, including game tactics, data analysis, roster construction, team bonding, program pillars, leadership, and so much more. Through Nebraska Soccer Talk, I wanted to share the resources that have helped me grow as a person and coach.

Das Reboot: How German Soccer Reinvented Itself and Conquered the World

By Raphael Honigstein

NEST Review Das Reboot focuses on the restructuring of the German style of development and play leading up to the nation’s 2014 World Cup win. It is a story of how ultimate failure can be the springboard for a prosperous future, if handled correctly. For me, the lessons learned by German football as a whole were easily applicable to individual youth programs. For high school and youth coaches this would be an excellent resource as you develop the pathway of your players. This book does an excellent job of introducing initiative development philosophies that simply make sense once pointed out. For every high school program, the youth setup is critical for success. The youth players of today are your varsity contributors of tomorrow. Das Reboot gives the tools for focusing on long-term development instead of the ‘win now’ mindset for younger ages. How did Germany create a seemingly endless pipeline of world class talent? It wasn’t by fate or luck. Learn about it with this read.  

For those not interested in youth development, Das Reboot also gives a behind the scenes look at the 2014 World Cup experience. 

Table of Contents

  1. Angst 2014
  2. A Man of Small Goals
  3. Go West
  4. Second-game Itch
  5. Germany, a Summer’s Tale
  6. Not the End
  7. We Against Us
  8. The Beginning of the Beginning
  9. Ice Barrel Challenge
  10. More Is More
  11. Grill Shack
  12. An Island of Modern Football
  13. Vorsprung durch Technik
  14. Mineraco
  15. The Gallic Village
  16. Diving with the Maldives
  17. Getting Closer with Arne Friedrich
  18. The Longest Goal

 

NEST Rating – ★★★★★

Amazon Rating – ★★★★★

Goodreads Rating – ★★★★☆

 

Buy this book on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Ebay or at your local bookstore.

 

Thank you for reading and being a part of our new community. A like, share, comment or recommendation of content would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to leave book/resource recommendations in the comment section below.

In order to financially support our efforts, sponsorship/partnership opportunities have become available. Sponsors will receive vast exposure to the Nebraska soccer community through different media avenues. The sponsorship process is easy and reasonable.

Contact us on our website or email @ nebraskasoccertalk@gmail.com.

Connect with us on TwitterInstagram, or listen to our podcast.

 

The Politics of Coaching – Book Recommendation

As coaches, players, and generally as people, we should always be looking to improve in one way or another. Continual growth and lifelong learning are impactful characteristics that shape a prosperous future. By improving ourselves, we can positively impact our surroundings on a greater scale. 

At Nebraska Soccer Talk, we have many objectives. We are here to promote players and coaches that participate in the game we love. As the season gets underway, NEST is also going to be covering as many games as humanly possible with a three person operation. However, we have a more overarching goal of forming an uplifting and supportive soccer community. We plan to do that in many different ways with the assistance of our readers. 

In the world we live in, there are countless resources at our disposal. Some are worth the time and effort, others simply are not. Sorting through those resources can be confusing, as well as time consuming. This article series is meant to make your growth process simple, enjoyable, and organized. Many of these resources are valuable, regardless of your level or role. Youth, high school, club, college, and pro coaches can benefit from these resources. Players, especially team leaders, can learn many valuable lessons. Finally, these items would be great for any parent looking to be more prepared for their child’s development.  

As a young coach and director, I spent countless hours searching and researching the internet for material. Throughout that process, I came across wonderful books, articles, and videos that have impacted me. These resources cover a myriad of topics, including game tactics, data analysis, roster construction, team bonding, program pillars, leadership, and so much more. Through Nebraska Soccer Talk, I wanted to share the resources that have helped me grow as a person and coach.

The Politics of Coaching

by Carl J. Pierson

NEST Review – Coaching can be a wonderful experience, regardless of the sport. For many of us, that sense of impact-fulness is the reason why we chose to get involved. However, longevity in the coaching career path does not happen by chance or luck. Those that prosper are expert communicators, personal managers, organizers, and life coaches. Fulfilling all of those roles can be overwhelming for many. If handled improperly, burn-out or a pink slip is a real possibility. Carl Pierson provides you with a full-scale guide to the coaching lifestyle. Even the smallest of details matter when you’re the program leader; this book helps you with those topics.

Table of Contents

Chapter 1: The Campaign

  • Throwing Your Hat In The Ring
  • It’s Who You Know, Not What You Know
  • It Never Hurts To Apply
  • The Interview
  • The Underdog
  • Know Your Strengths
  • Never Use Negative Campaigning Publicly
  • Running Against An Incumbent

Chapter 2: Director of Communications

  • The State Of The Program Speech
  • Individual Player Meetings
  • Open Door vs. Call and Click Policy
  • The Magic of E-Mail
  • The Danger of E-Mail
  • The Power of Old Fashioned Mail
  • Controlling the Message
  • The New Enemy: Online Fan Forums
  • New Forms of Communication
  • The Coach’s Lifeline
  • Crazy Parents: Label Them Before They Label You
  • Political Correctness: The Power of Words

Chapter 3: Public Relations

  •  Media Relations
  • The Best Public Relations Move You Will Ever Make
  • The Other Best Public Relations Move You Will Ever Make
  • Know Your Constituents
  • The Expectations Game: Control Them Before They Control You
  • Dealing With Public Confrontations

Chapter 4: Special Interest Groups

  • The Powerful Parent
  • When the Powerful Parent is Your Boss
  • Fundraising and Donations
  • Parent Donations
  • Accepting Help From Parents
  • Booster Clubs
  • Control of Activity Accounts
  • The Allies Every Coach Must Have

Chapter 5: Confronting A “Cancer” in Your Program

  • Diagnosing Cancer
  • Player Cancer
  • Parent Cancer
  • Assistant Coach Cancer

Chapter 6: The Politics of Youth Sports

  • Coaching Your Own Kid
  • Youth Tryouts
  • Every Parent Has An Agenda
  • Convincing Youth Coaches to Integrate Your System
  • Sell Your System, Don’t Mandate It
  • When Selling Doesn’t Work
  • Beware The Parent That Won The 6th Grade Championship
  • The Residual Effect of Youth Sports Boards

Chapter 7: Learning From and Dealing With Coaches

  • Trophies as Critic Repellent
  • The Softer Side
  • Old Fashioned Political Acumen
  • Dealing With Coaches in Other Sports
  • Dealing With Club or Personal Coaches
  • Dealing With College Coaches

Chapter 8: The Politics of Winning and Losing

  • How to Handle Winning
  • Using “We” After a Loss
  • Beware of Blaming Bad Luck
  • Shouldering the Blame
  • Players Win Games

Chapter 9: Surviving Race and Gender Issues

  • Males Coaching Males
  • Females Coaching Males
  • Females Coaching Females
  • Males Coaching Females
  • The Politics of Race

Chapter 10: All Politics Is Local

  • Picking Teams
  • Seniors: Cut ‘Em or Keep ‘Em?
  • General Thoughts About Cutting Players
  • The Politics of Playing Time
  • Playing Time During a Blowout
  • Recruiting Players
  • Selecting Team Captains
  • My Proudest Moment In Coaching
  • The Classroom’s Impact on Coaching
  • The Coaching Crossroads: Recognizing When to Move On, Resign, or Stand and Fight
  • The Single Smartest Political Move Any Coach Can Make

NEST Rating – ★★★★★

Amazon Rating – ★★★★☆

Goodreads Rating – ★★★★☆

Buy this book on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Ebay or at your local bookstore.

 

Thank you for reading and being a part of our new community. A like, share, comment or recommendation of content would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to leave book/resource recommendations in the comment section below.

In order to financially support our efforts, sponsorship/partnership opportunities have become available. Sponsors will receive vast exposure to the Nebraska soccer community through different media avenues. The sponsorship process is easy and reasonable.

Contact us on our website or email @ nebraskasoccertalk@gmail.com.

Connect with us on TwitterInstagram, or listen to our podcast on Spotify.